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In The Log from the Sea of Cortez, John Steinbeck writes about his friend Ed's unique "ability to receive, to receive anything from anyone, to receive gracefully and thankfully and to make the gift seem very fine. Because of this everyone felt good in giving to Ed -- a present, a thought, anything.
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It is so easy to give, so exquisitely rewarding. Receiving, on the other hand, if it be well done, requires a fine balance of self-knowledge and kindness. It requires humility and tact and great understanding of relationships. In receiving you cannot appear, even to yourself, better or stronger or wiser than the giver, although you must be wiser to do it well.
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[Ed] could receive and understand and be truly glad, not competitively glad."
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